The Need To Be Right Can Be Wrong

Right is right and wrong is wrong, but sometimes it is better to give it a rest. Of course, there is no good argument for advocating wrong. Wrong does damage and the damage that results destroys those things most important to us. Also, there is no excuse for suspending right when it's best to admit wrong. Usually, wrong reeks havoc. Wrong should be avoided.

Nevertheless, there are few things more annoying than to be around someone who has to be right all the time. Simple differences of opinion too often become a battleground where hurt rears its head when someone fights to the end. What's really sad is when the difference of opinion is over something rather trite. "Okay, maybe we shouldn't have taken that exit." "Okay, okay, you were right, I should not have washed the car today." "Okay, okay, okay, enough is enough..." And the next thing you know, tempers flare and words issued are only regretted later. What a waste of precious energy.

Being right is commendable. The world needs more right, but many times the need to be right can be wrong. Give it a rest. Some wrongs can easily be ignored and the world will keep turning. Focus on what's important. Strive for what needs to be done. It's a better use of time. Your friends will thank you.